The chase is undoubtedly one of the best parts of a relationship.  Unfortunately, in many cases when you and your man begin to settle down into a more serious relationship that feeling of being chased can begin to fade or in some cases disappear altogether.  That’s no fun for anyone and I’m here to help stop this from happening.So many women come to me asking how they get their boyfriend to chase them and in most cases, I have to tell them the same thing, let him.  It may seem odd at first but letting your man run free and trusting him to do the things he wants to do is the first step in getting him to regain his lust. 


At the early stages of the relationship, men will be much more inclined to let you know everything about their lives.  Questions about where he’s going or who he’s with are common and won’t be met with any resistance.  Once things start developing and those conversations become a regular occurrence it’s only natural that he’ll start to pull away and want to keep some things private.  This is a crucial point that can make or break in a happy relationship.

Once you start feeling that resistance, it’s time to let him spread his wings and have his privacy. 

 I’m not saying to deliberately ignore your boyfriend or treat him differently in any way, just give him the freedom that you know he wants.  Enjoy your time apart and you’ll be able to enjoy your time together so much more. When the questions stop coming and he feels comfortable he’ll be the one questioning you and you can enjoy that feeling of being chased again.  It should never be the job of one person in the relationship to pull and the other to push.

Being in a relationship is all about having fun and enjoying yourself whilst trusting your partner and enabling them to enjoy their lives even more with you by their side.

So take a break from being the hunter and enjoy being the hunted.

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